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It Takes Courage to Say No

The yes of a person who is not able to say no has no value at all.  Greetings and felicitations everyone! Today I am back here to put together the thoughts running inside my mind on the topic "It takes courage to say no". When I talk about the courage to say no, each one of us can recall an incident when we were not pretty complying with the situation but just gave a nod in order to fit into the situation. Why is it so difficult to say no? It's just a word right? One of our most fundamental needs is for social connection and a feeling that we belong. Saying no feels threatening our relationships. Amidst our struggles to fit in and be liked by our peers, we worry that saying no might make those same peers reject us. Many of us are afraid to say no because we fear this very exclusion and rejection. We fear facing cold shoulders from our favorite people. We are afraid that we might put the other person in dismay. If you are a people-pleaser, you always take it as your respon...