A Thing To Think About !
Greetings and felicitations people !
A day before, I heard a podcast of a renowned speaker which just lead me to write this blog. Before just jumping on to the topic directly, I would like you people to guess it out.
So, there's this one thing we all have within us which is our selfless thinking towards us. We people are always in a competition with today's world. Suppose, if a cobbler is there polishing your shoes, we consider him of a standard lower than us as in we are paying for it and we consider ourselves the owners or I would say we consider ourselves superior to him. But, there is surely one or the other thing in terms of which that cobbler is higher than us. It may be in terms of hard work or it may be in terms of knowing the people in the surrounding well or in terms of anything. So that one thing can be the reason to compete .
The topic I am talking about is "Inferiority Complex". We all have faced this at some or the other point in our lives. So common to experience yet an uncommon topic to talk about. We have that thinking at certain points which is - " Agar mujhme ye ek chiz hoti to mein better hota/hoti". Isn't it? Why do we need everything ? Why do we seek to be perfect all the time? If you don't have all the good personality traits so what? Is that thing stopping you from moving towards success ? Is its absence affecting your pace? If you have a short height , so what? If you're tall heighted so what? If you have dark complexion , so what? If you are fair enough, so what? If you don't know certain language, so what? Even if you know the language, so what?
So what??
Don't let such things interrupt your way. There are many people who find a way of distracting you by just pointing out your imperfect aspect. Simultaneously many people easily get pulled away with this distraction. Why? These are not the imperfections, the things were just meant to be this way. It is absolutely okay. Flaunt your flaws and start overcoming your inferiority complex. Just move ahead and don't really pay attention to what the world says. Stay with the people who love the way you are and start loving yourself. Everything begins from self. The world will probably be there for you if you are there for yourself. So stop paying heed to the distraction and just move onn with life.
And yes, I love you for the way you are !
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Never understimate your personality by comparing yourself from someone else 💗
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Deleteबहुत ही सुन्दर 💕
ReplyDeleteDhanyavaad :)
DeleteAppreciating concept bro good going🔥💥😉
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DeleteThe same aspect I learnt last year 😊☀️.. Thanks you Aabha.. keep Growing Keep Glowing ✨
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DeleteWell said, Abha. We are what we are. Why to modify our personality to others' demand. We have our own choices. If a mother can love a son with one side of his burnt face ( On the Face of It), others around must follow suit or shun their company. Love those who love and respect you. Keep those at arms' length who pretend to be superior.In this world of today nobody cares and bothers about others whether one is billionaire. Everyone should preserve their self-esteem.
ReplyDeleteNice thoughts, dear.
Very true sir. We are what we are and we need not change ourselves for others.
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I really appreciate your selection of topics and the the quality content you fill it with. Amazing ❤️
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Buddyy ! A bit of the credit goes to you for suggesting some podcasts worth listening !
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DeleteVery well said Aabha!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad that you chose this topic. We need to talk about it more often.
To be honest, every human has faced this once in their lifetime. But we should not compare ourselves with anyone else. By comparing ourselves with others we tend to disrespect us only. We should love and accept ourselves with or without any flaws, no matter what.
Exactly !
DeleteFlaws are the traits that make a person perfectly imperfect. We should accept them happily.
Keep rising💯 great words
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